8th Grade Graduation- What the Future Holds

OliviaGrad

Almost 14 years ago you changed my life

We have had our good times, we have had our bad times

But it has been time is filled with Pride

High School is next, and will be very influential

You will struggle, You will laugh, You will cry

Through it all, I will be here quietly supporting you

These years will transition you from the innocence of childhood

To the harsh reality in the Real World

While the world can be a cruel place

I hope you always see the true beauty that is in it

OliviaKid

You have always been a magnet, drawing the toddler to play freely

It is because of your pure heart, and this I wish of all to remain

No matter what the Real World throws your way,

Just look to the children to show you the joy in life

Just as I continue to look to you, my inspiration!

There is nothing more powerful than your SMILE!

Love you, Sweet Pea!

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Coaches Who Push Too Far

IMG_1103 1When your kids become involved in athletics, you simply want the best for them. Some believe the best means awards and trophies, while others believe in simply having fun. Being a competitor my whole life means I want both for my kids. If you just want to have fun, then its just an activity. Athletics is meant for competition and the pursuit of perfection (Being the Best), but at no time should this ever be detrimental to your child. The main message should always be for athletes to practice and compete to the best of their abilities; to be proud of their efforts.

Being a teacher/coach with many years of experience, I have seen many parents living vicariously through their children and the damage it can do. Never had I thought about another angle to be watched….Coaches living vicariously through their athletes. Never, that is, until one such coach took over for my daughter’s gymnastic team. Below are my feelings after dealing with a coach who lives vicariously through his gymnasts:

Believing in your speech that you cared for each gymnast and would take the program to a higher level– Made me a follower

Seeing gymnasts cry during practice– Made me Wonder

Watching multiple gymnasts struggle with fears, skills, and injuries– Made me Question

Believing that in your words, my daughter was disrespectful and disruptive in practices– Made me a Fool

Not trusting my instincts and leaving when I had serious doubts about your abilities to head the program– Made me the Idiot

Witnessing your lack of communication and your growing disrespect to gymnasts and to parents– Made me Angry

Seeing multiple individual state champions regress in skills– Made me Understand

Seeing my daughter, in a new gym, reclaim her PASSION and LOVE for gymnastics while being treated with respect– Makes me Cry

Hearing that a program I loved and supported is crumbling– Made me Sad

Hearing that others also see through your facade, recognize you for who/what you really are, and are leaving– Makes it Obvious

Learning you quit on kids and berate them like a Bully– Makes you Detrimental

Having you still pursuing an Elite Level Program after 30+ years– Makes you a Failure

In the end, my child is in a better place, confirmed by the smiles and positive attitude she displays on a daily basis since the move to a new gym. For this, I am thankful.